A Smooth Move Up: Managing School Transitions

“Growth means change, and change involves risk, stepping from the known to the unknown.” ~Anonymous 

This fall I will be sending my second child off to high school. Much like earlier transitions to kindergarten and middle school, my daughter’s emotions vacillate between excitement and anxiety, along with a bit of sadness from having to leave a school home she knew and loved. Its unbelievable how time flies! My daughter has grown in a million wonderful ways. Yet, as she embarks on this new adventure, she still needs our help to ease those anxious moments and set her on a smooth path.

Children of all ages need our support as they make those important academic transitions in their lives. How we approach the change sets the tone for our children. Positivity and encouragement are paramount, yet there are other important steps we can take that may have a big impact.

Things parents can do to ease transitions:

Take advantage of opportunities to acclimate your child to the new school environment over the summer by enrolling him in camps, sports, or clubs, offered on campus. This will help him become familiar with his new surroundings while forging new friendships. If you have not already done so, visit the school with your child to meet faculty and staff. Attend all orientation activities and make an effort to meet other families.

Become part of the parent association or other parent volunteer groups. Volunteering is a great way to make connections in the school community that will benefit you and your child. When children see their parents serving their school, it increases their level of comfort and creates a greater sense of community. Additionally, many studies show that parent involvement in school results in academic improvement.

It is normal for children to have some anxiety or fear about entering a new environment. It is also common for them to feel some sadness about leaving their comfortable and familiar former school home. Allow them to express those feelings and respond with affection and encouragement. Learning how to navigate a new social dynamic is often the major source of anxiety for children. While creating opportunities for them to form new friendships, make an effort to maintain your child’s current strong friendships to ease anxiety and feelings of loss.

Want to learn more about how to help your child be successful this coming school year? Attend one of our two upcoming workshops, Ready, Set, Soar: Preparing for Academic Success. August 11 and 25. Log on to www.gardenerparenting.com, and click on "Events" for course and registration information.

~Sheila~
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